ISO and Transitions
What is Transition?
“Transition is the process of adapting to the changes we experience.” (Third Culture Kids ). At ISO this is experienced largely through the introduction of a new school culture whether you are arriving, leaving or staying. A strong, healthy transition is stable, comfortable and self-assured.
Types of Transition:
Moving Countries/Changing Schools
Elementary School to Middle School
Middle School to High School
High School to University
Staying in one location while others move on
Transitioning between classes at school
Changes in family structure
- Promoting overall social-emotional health, self-care, family care, peer care, and institutional/organizational care
- Transitions Team:
- Consisting of faculty members, administration, students and parents
- “Building a bridge from ‘here’ to ‘there’ and back again” (Third Culture Kids) by:
- Providing a welcoming atmosphere for our community
- Educating ourselves about transitions-related considerations within an international school context (Safe Passage, Third Culture Kids)
- Collaborating amongst stakeholders to provide a transition-informed environment
- Celebrating our arrivers, leavers and stayers through orientation programs, school-wide assemblies and events
- For those Arriving…
- Initial French language training covered for incoming staff to help them acclimatize rapidly
- Open communication with admissions office and Community Relations Office
- New Family Orientation
- Detailed information provided in digital handbooks for students, faculty and board members
- For those Leaving…
- End of Year Assembly Celebration and Awards
- Group and Individual Counseling sessions around the subject of transition
- College and Career counseling to support students as they approach graduation.
- For those Staying…
- Year round transition activities to support our community (parents, students, staff)
- “Move to the Middle” for rising 6th graders
- 8th grade celebration marks the transition from Middle to High School.
What to Pay Attention To:
Examples of practical adjustments one has to make in transition:
- The physical body must adapt to climate, time zone, school schedule, etc
- Our thinking must adjust as language, culture and expectations change
- Emotions are in flux as both loss and excitement co-exist
- Our social lives tilt and remix in new ways
- Our beliefs and inner identity shift.
- How Parents can Help
Belonging to family is critical → ‘portable traditions’; normalizing mobility
Build your R.A.F.T.
- Reconciliation - it is common to pull away as a major change approaches. Leaving problems behind rather than resolving them will make your transition more difficult. Work towards developing a sense of peace with the people in your life.
- Affirmation - let the meaningful people in your life know that you appreciate them and that you will miss them.
- Farewell - while it is often painful to say goodbye, not doing so can cause you to carry regret or a lack of closure. It is important to allow yourself to feel the pain of loss in order to move through your transition. Make the time to say goodbye.
- Think Destination - if you are moving, learn about the place you are moving to. If you are staying, think about how things will change and how you might make new friends.
ISO Social and Emotional counselor
Further Helpful Resources for Parents:
See below for links to articles related to: Empowering parents during transition/Depression/Adjusting/Social and Emotional learning in the holidays/Tips
This term, ‘Third Culture Kids’, was coined in the early fifties by sociologist Ruth Hill Useem after spending a year on two separate occasions in India with her three children.
Initially they used the term "third culture" to refer to the process of learning how to relate to another culture; in time they started to refer to children who accompany their parents into a different culture as "Third Culture Kids." Useem used the term "Third Culture Kids (TCKs)" because TCKs integrate aspects of their birth culture (the first culture) and the new culture (the second culture), creating a unique "third culture".
At ISO we understand the challenges facing these TCKs from many angles: not only are many of our students TCKs but, so too, are many of our staff and their own children. Much of what we value in our learning programmes is designed specifically to meet the needs of children who have lived and learned in many different cultures and in different languages. Our Language programmes are designed to meet the specific language development needs of children for whom English is not their mother tongue or dominant language and our belief in the value of multilingualism to a child’s cognitive development sees us offering second and third language acquisition and development opportunities.
In addition, our extensive After School Activities, Arts and Athletics programmes are designed to ensure our young global nomads also have the opportunities to develop and extend their sporting and fine arts skills beyond the classroom.Our hope is that they will find within the walls of ISO a learning community in which their distinctive needs are met and their unique experiences valued
Articles to empower and guide parents in helping their children
1. Books on moving and transitions for TCKs
2. The trouble with third culture kids (although geared more toward professionals this article is so well written that may help some parents understand their child’s experience)
3.Building Social and Emotional Learning during the School Holidays
4..Depression and Third Culture Kids
5.Help Your Kid Adjust to a New School After Moving
6. Tips for Teens on Moving to a New House (for students)
7. Essential Tips to Help Kids Settle Into a New School